it’s okay to have clumsy and awkward sex and it’s actually really common
the ability to laugh while you’re lying tangled and naked together bc you realize just how silly something is is really really intimate and trusting, and it’s the best feeling to be like that with someone and to be relaxed
it happens with long-term partners, it happens on hookups, and it’s rarely as bad as it’s always made out to be, except we usually think it’s bad we're told that’s not how sex is supposed to go. but that’s not true.
it can still be passionate and intimate while being messy and clumsy, absolutely. you don’t need to “perform well.” sex isn’t a show: it’s about feeling good. sometimes it takes experimenting to figure out what feels good, and fumbles and awkward moments and laughter is all just part of it. sometimes that’s a huge part of the fun.
i’m not gonna kill myself because if my depression wants me dead THAT badly it’s gonna have to start shutting my fucking organs down like a REAL disease instead of being a fucking pussy and hiding in my brain and trying to get ME to do it’s dirty work for it !
[2-panel comic. A yellow dog and a pink dog are talking. Panel 1: The pink dog says “I can’t wait for the weather to get better. I’m going to drink iced coffee and be amazing.” Panel 2: The yellow dog asks “Isn’t that what you do all year long?” The pink dog says “Thank you for noticing.”]
also animals can be trans. there was that one lion who grew a mane and started living as male in his pride and he was a lot happier. and when i looked up if my chicken was intersex (dont ask lol) i found a forum post where a guy’s hen started to look more and more like a rooster and was also a lot happier
there is also a species of fish that can change their sex/gender whenever they want to so,,,,
also it’s actually really common for a hen to turn into a rooster if a group of hens do not already have a rooster
the act of changing gender in the animal kingdom is not that rare of a phenomenon
the entire animal kingdom said trans rights!!!
There’s also a species of lizard dubbed the “lesbian lizard” that is an all-female species and they reproduce asexually but do participate in mating behaviour with each other
lizards said ace nb lesbian rights!!
I wouldn’t classify them as trans since these animals don’t have a concept of genders but! Intelligent animals like elephants, dolphins or primates sure as fuck can be trans.
Tbh if any animal would be like aware of gender and still say “fuck gender” it would be the octopus let’s be real
I’ve seen many stories of abled people grabbing someone’s wheelchair and honestly there is a rage and horror every time I do. I don’t use a wheelchair as of now, and I would never touch a person’s wheelchair without consent ever. I’m beyond sorry this happens. You’d think it would be common sense! The things that just go out the window when people know your disabled, it’s disgusting.
#1 rule of freelancing is that you have to be dead fuckin serious about getting paid. do not assume everything is going fine and they will pay you eventually. follow up as many times as you have to until the money is in your bank account. if you catch yourself thinking, “oh, i don’t want to bother them…” kill that thought and b o t h e r them. send uber-polite, grandma-is-watching e-mails along the lines of, “Hi! Hope this note finds you well. Just wanted to check in re: the status of my payment. Do you know when the funds will be available?” every few days until you get your money.
i want to add that i wrote this post from the perspective of a freelance journalist, where it’s standard to receive pay upon completion. if you’re doing other types of freelance work – i.e., art – feel very free to charge in full or in part up front, before you even begin the work.
[id: an edited meme of chris fleming talking. the caption reads, “okay, was anybody going to tell me that [brie larson made a 2000s brat pop album] or was i just supposed to read that in [wikipedia] myself?” end id]
hi! mismanaged my finances and got hit with back to back to back (to back, there’s more!!) overdraft fees and i’d like to be able to eat and get to school daily. so very special portrait commissions. style a starts at $40 and style b starts at $60 (i think these prices are pretty fair, maybe even cheap, considering the amount of time+detail that goes into each painting). hopefully i can eliminate these fees with just three or four commissions. please reblog! thank you :)
